Hey guys, Jackie, your future celebrant here.

I stand unapologetically here today to deliver this short manifesto:

Promise #1: A Revolution in Ceremony I promise to create a ceremony where your love takes centre stage — no tradition for tradition’s sake. This is your story, not a script. Let’s make something that feels true.

Promise #2: A Love Letter to Equality Equality is not negotiable, and I pledge to honour every partnership, regardless of gender or identity.

Promise #3: A Celebration Beyond Norms Let's toss outdated norms out the window and embrace a wedding that is pure, unfiltered YOU. Your celebration will mirror you: your values, your dreams and your love story.

Promise #4: Laughter as Resistance In the face of seriousness, we will choose joy! Joy is powerful. I promise to create space for laughter, warmth, and moments of lightness — because love can be sacred and fun.

Promise #5: Amplified Voices Your ceremony should sound like you. I will centre your voices and your stories — not mine. This is about your truth, spoken out loud and witnessed with love.

Promise #6: Inclusivity As A Non-negotiable From cultural traditions to personal beliefs, I will respect what matters to you. Your ceremony will honour your heritage, your people, and your lived experience.

Promise #7: I’ll Make It Count Expect goosebumps. And probably a few tears. Your ceremony will be heartfelt, memorable, and deeply felt — more meaningful than a TED Talk, more alive than a dance floor.

Promise #8: I’ll Stand With You Marriage is a radical act — especially when it’s chosen consciously. I’m not here to sell a fantasy. I’m here to celebrate real love, and the brave decision to commit to it.

Promise #9: I’m In Your Corner I’m not just your officiant; I am your cheerleader! In a world where the statistics often don’t look great for those of us wanting a “lifelong love”, I want your marriage to be one of the lasting ones! I will provide you with access to resources and support before and after the “hell yeah’s”, from suggestions of pre-marriage counselling services, through to “day after” recovery plan ideas.

Promise #10: A Friendship Beyond Ceremony Our connection doesn't end at the "I do." Once the confetti clears, I’m still here. As a witness to your vows, I take them seriously. I’ll be a friend to your love story — cheering you on long after the party ends.

So, lovers, the question is: are you ready to embrace the extraordinary?

Love, always

Jackie x